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:PROPERTIES:
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#+SETUPFILE: setup.org
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#+SETUPFILE: setup.org
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#+export_file_name: index
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#+export_file_name: index
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#+title: The art of circumlocution
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#+subtitle:
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#+subtitle:
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:END:
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:END:
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* TODO [[file:let-people-fail.org][Let people fail]]
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* [[file:let-people-fail.org][Let people fail]]
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* [[file:big-companies][The problem with large organizations]]
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* [[file:big-companies][The problem with large organizations]]
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* TODO [[file:job-description.org][Just what is it you do here?]]
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* TODO [[file:job-description.org][Just what is it you do here?]]
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* TODO [[file:managing-expectations.org][Managing Expectations]]
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* TODO [[file:managing-expectations.org][Managing Expectations]]
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* How (and why) to let people fail
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* How (and why) to let people fail
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Warning: This, like most things, will involve a fair bit of projection.
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Warning: This, like most things, will involve a fair bit of projection.
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I have some thoughts about collaboration.
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Effective and enjoyable collaboration with other people requires mutual trust.
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While a lot of this is obvious and well accepted, I think there are some fine points worth elaborating on.
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I believe that for someone to feel trusted by another person then they need the space to fail.
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The obvious part is that people work better together when they believe they are trusted. Trust breeds initiative and independence. Distrust breeds resentment and inaction.
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I _think_ this is obvious when considering what not having the space to fail looks like.
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Consider the flip side of trust, for a moment.
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Not having the space to fail means your collaborator is doing one of two things:
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A common way that people show _distrust_ when collaborating is either micromanaging or just coming in behind someone and redoing their work.
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1. Directing every action you take a.k.a. micromanaging
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2. Coming behind you and redoing all of your work
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If that demonstrates distrust then
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Both of these are attempts by the other person to minimize risk (or simply cases where they're failing to manage their own anxieties).
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It's not enough that you simply _do_ trust someone else to get the benefits, you need to show it. I think this is the part that many people skip or ignore.
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These actions are counter productive to fostering trust and should be avoided unless failure is too costly.
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This is, of course, true in general.
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I'm _not_ saying all collaboration _requires_ building trust. There are times when you simply can't afford failure or mistakes.
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What I am saying is that people frequently misjudge the value in deliberately giving others the space to fail for the sake of fostering trust.
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Building trust is important and we should do it deliberately.
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#+author: James Brechtel
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#+author: James Brechtel
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#+email: me@jamesbrechtel.com
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#+email: me@jamesbrechtel.com
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#+bind: org-export-publishing-directory "./public"
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#+bind: org-export-publishing-directory "./public"
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#+html_headx: <link rel="stylesheet" href="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/gh/kimeiga/bahunya/dist/bahunya.min.css">
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#+html_head: <link rel="stylesheet" href="https://unpkg.com/awsm.css/dist/awsm.min.css" type="text/css">
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#+html_head_writ: <link rel="stylesheet" href="//writ.cmcenroe.me/1.0.4/writ.min.css" type="text/css">
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#+html_head_writ: <link rel="stylesheet" href="//writ.cmcenroe.me/1.0.4/writ.min.css" type="text/css">
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#+html_head_bahunya: <link rel="stylesheet" href="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/gh/kimeiga/bahunya/dist/bahunya.min.css">
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#+html_head_bahunya: <link rel="stylesheet" href="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/gh/kimeiga/bahunya/dist/bahunya.min.css">
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#+html_head_awsm: <link rel="stylesheet" href="https://unpkg.com/awsm.css/dist/awsm.min.css" type="text/css">
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#+html_head_awsm: <link rel="stylesheet" href="https://unpkg.com/awsm.css/dist/awsm.min.css" type="text/css">
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#+html_head_holiday: <link rel="stylesheet" href="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/npm/holiday.css@0.11.2" />
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#+html_head_holiday: <link rel="stylesheet" href="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/npm/holiday.css@0.11.2" />
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#+html_head_mvp: <link rel="stylesheet" href="https://unpkg.com/mvp.css">
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#+html_head_mvp: <link rel="stylesheet" href="https://unpkg.com/mvp.css">
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#+html_head_pico: <link rel="stylesheet" href="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/npm/@picocss/pico@2/css/pico.min.css">
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#+html_head_pico: <link rel="stylesheet" href="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/npm/@picocss/pico@2/css/pico.min.css">
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#+html_head: <link rel="stylesheet" href="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/npm/@picocss/pico@2/css/pico.min.css">
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#+html_head: <link rel="stylesheet" href="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/npm/@picocss/pico@2/css/pico.classless.amber.min.css">
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#+html_head_tacit: <link rel="stylesheet" href="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/gh/yegor256/tacit@gh-pages/tacit-css-1.8.1.min.css"/>
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#+html_head_tacit: <link rel="stylesheet" href="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/gh/yegor256/tacit@gh-pages/tacit-css-1.8.1.min.css"/>
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#+html_container: main
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#+html_content_class: container
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#+options: html-link-use-abs-url:nil html-postamble:nil
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#+options: html-link-use-abs-url:nil html-postamble:nil
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#+options: html-preamble:t html-scripts:nil html-style:nil
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#+options: html-preamble:t html-scripts:nil html-style:nil
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#+options: html5-fancy:t tex:t
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